SCAM SELF-DEFENCE GUIDE

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Romance Scams

Don’t let love blind you to scams

Don’t let love blind you to scams

Your online lover might be a scammer operating undercover. Using classic catfishing techniques, they can quickly win your heart and then your money. Australians have lost over $210 million to romance scams. Perfect your perception skills to spot red flags before it’s too late.

Spotting a scam

A romance scammer targets people seeking love, often approaching you on dating websites, apps, or social media. Over days, months, or even years, they build a bond and gain your trust. These scammers can be particularly ruthless, preying on loneliness or personal circumstances. Avoid the pain of being scammed by learning the telltale signs and making decisions with your head, not your heart.

They’ll quickly build a relationship and then ask for money, claiming to be in urgent need or presenting a "great" investment opportunity.

They might start with a small amount, but if successful, they’ll repeatedly ask for more—often using unusual payment methods.

They’ll encourage you to keep your relationship secret from loved ones and coach you on how to respond to any questions or concerns.

Romance scammers will protect their true identity at all costs and often avoid meeting in person or answering a video call.

Self-Defence

Enjoy your new romance, but when faced with tough decisions, use your head, not your heart. Learn to recognise relationship-ending finishing combos and keep romance scammers out of your wallet.

If something feels off, reverse search any images you receive from a romance scammer. Upload their pictures to Google Images to check for any matches.

Discuss the relationship with close friends and family. Getting a fresh perspective from others can make all the difference.

Never send explicit images of yourself online. Scammers can use these images to blackmail you for ransom.

When money is involved, don’t rush the love. Take it slow and ask as many questions as you can.

Stay alert at all times. Watch for spelling and grammar mistakes, and look for inconsistencies in stories.